Our attempts, as a lesbian couple in the UK, at making a baby. Update: we are now pregnant!
I'm calmer and worrying less about the "am I, amn't I?" question. I think, basically, I'm not. Having accepted that, it's easier to move on and look forward to Cagney's first try in the next week or 10 days.
We are two UK lesbians, trying to have a child with a male friend. We are perhaps unusual as the baby will have 3 parents - both of us and the father-to-be (Travolta). We started trying just recently, but have been thinking about this a couple of years, and planning in detail for several months.
We are 30-40, and have been together 10 years. We civil-partnered earlier this year (the UK finally has equality in its marriage laws, but is still desperate not to scare the religious lobby, so we are equal in all but name).
